Message from Gail Sharp
December 2025

I sometimes wonder if there is something wrong with me that I am most comfortable being alone, or at least alone with my critters.
It might come from being an only child in a family with few aunts, uncles, cousins. We never had those big, joyfully loud holiday events. It was usually just the three of us. Though my plan was to marry young and have kids, my life took several turns and that didn't happen. So, I've become accustomed to quiet.
I just went to a friend's house for Thanksgiving. She is a great cook, a gracious hostess and opens her home to many of us who don't have families. It is always a wonderful day full of food and friends. However, for me, it can be overwhelming at times - the noise, the chaos right before dinner. Is this really weird? I am often the first to leave an event, loving to be there but also loving to leave. I can only pray that my friends accept my eccentric behavior with an indulgent "Oh well,
that's Gail – we still love her."
This acceptance which I so need and appreciate reminds me that I, too, must accept and love those around me who do and say things that might not be exactly like me. The ability to accept and let go of judgements and the need to control other people might be one of the most important roads to peace, especially in our political climate but also in our groups of families, friends, coworkers. What if we could give each other a bit of grace and understanding? As someone with a thousand flaws, what
a gift your acceptance of me can be!
I hope to put acceptance and grace into this holiday season and into 2026. I can do better. Be kinder. Seek to understand. And, when I'm leaving early from an event, I hope you'll do the same for me! 😊
I wish you a peaceful, loving holiday – whether surrounded by family and friends or joyfully alone. We at TallGrass appreciate your loyalty and friendship! Happy Holidays and Happy New Year!
Gail Sharp is the owner of TallGrass Spa and Salon. Email her at sharpgail@aol.com .
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