Message from Gail Sharp
July 2025

I rarely, if ever, procrastinate.
Getting things done immediately is super satisfying to me and takes the stress away. Which means I can quickly accomplish a lot. That's great news in many cases, but there are huge drawbacks to this way of living. Time and time again, I relearn the concept of slowing down, thinking first, being deliberate.
Take last week. In my morning meditation on Friday, I felt the nudge to get out of my comfort zone and the wonderful rut that I love so much. One way was to push myself to take my trail rides out of my neighborhood and get back to trailering my horse to local parks. I asked a friend to join me. That very day, I had our horses loaded into my trailer – with significant pressure ☹ – and took them for a brief drive. Then on Monday, just two days after a half-hour of practice loading
and many years of never putting my horse in a stressful-scary trailer, we made plans to go.
Fortunately, God/the universe stepped in with a couple of significant issues – truck breaking down, Jeffco Open Space parking lot closed for the week. Thankful for the "Wait, Gail!" message, I did pause and think we might be moving too quickly. My immediate habit was not a good idea at all. So, we scuttled the plan and are now going back to working very slowly with our horses to re-acclimate them to getting in the trailer and for my friend and me to retrain ourselves in safe horse
trailer driving.
I hope I'm not alone in the continuing process of relearning the same lessons over and over. Rushing pell-mell is never smart. Slow down. Consider options. Be patient. Approach carefully. So, at some point this summer, I hope to achieve my goal of riding in a park. Until then, we will slowly and smartly put in the work we need to do.
Enjoy these incredibly beautiful, special days of summer. I hope you speedsters can slow down a bit and accomplish what you'd like to achieve with patience. Slow and sweet!
Gail Sharp is the owner of TallGrass Spa and Salon. Email her at sharpgail@aol.com .
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