Message from Gail Sharp
May 2025

I had to say goodbye to my beloved pet steer Okie Doke this morning. I'm heartbroken.
You may remember past newsletter columns talking about him and the joy he brought to my little ranch. Unfortunately, Okie decided to start pushing through our fence regularly, getting out onto a busy road. He has gotten quite big and it was challenging to get him and his playful "I've escaped" demeaner back into his 5-acre pasture. The grass is greener was true for Okie. So, I found a home for him in Bennett at a place where the people already had a pet cow that needed a friend. What a relief
as finding a home for a pet cow ain't simple.
The decision to rehome him was not easy, but it was the best choice for all concerned – including Okie. But, it still sucks. And, yes, I know, he's a cow. How close can anyone really get to a cow for goodness sakes? Let me tell you. Pretty damned close! He brought such joy to everyone in my neighborhood, laughter to all of us with his mooing and playing, and a special unique bond that most of us would never have with an animal.
Perhaps you've had to make these "it's for the best" decisions yourself. Necessary, but oh so hard. In the midst of my tears and my worries (Is this the right thing? Will he have a good home? Could I have done more?) I have to work to remind myself that I can only control my reaction to this situation. I can focus on my grief and my fear or I can be grateful for the time Okie and I had together. So tonight, when I feed my animals, I will be trying very hard to think of my friendship and joy
with Okie and not my loss.
I send hope that you too can reframe your sad times into what you had instead of what you lost. May is a lovely month to focus on new life, beautiful weather, flowers, our mothers, and being outside. YAY Spring!
Gail Sharp is the owner of TallGrass Spa and Salon. Email her at sharpgail@aol.com .
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